OMG I am livid
Ive posted on here before about the "friend" who's little girl i watch and how I didnt feel like she was paying me enough but more important that she was starting to treat me like a employee.
Well some background.......For the last year we had been planning that this year we would be spending new years at our house......even upto when i came to america that was still the plan. One week before new years I just mentioned casually "we still on for next weekend" and she told me she would have to let me know as her parents were in town (there in the process of moving here and have there own house) and that she will need to check with her
So im at this point just pissed off with her and so just told myself that we will proberly have more fun without them. So it went to the saturday before new years and still hadnt heard from her so we went food shopping just got enough stuff for 4 etc.
Then as our husbands work together, Chris comes home at 11.30pm and tells me that they are coming and there bringing her parents......again
am i the only one that thinks thats RUDE! I would never just show up at someones house with my own guests without checking if it was ok first.
So then they all came over for new years eve, she called me earlier in the day to ask me if she needed to bring anything and what were the plans. So i told her chris would be making pizza and we were just gonna all hang out (2 other friends were there too) and play games, which may sound geeky but thats what we all love to do together.
So they get here like 30 minutes before my hubby got home from work, she had bought some champagne and beer with her and i went to put them in the fridge, only to be told by her that they wernt staying!
I was really annoyed as whats the point of saying you will come if you have no plans to stay till midnight. No kidding about 2 hours later, there daughter started to get cranky which is fine it was later and she is only 2 half. Chris told them they could put her down to sleep in our spareroom which is also where she sleep when i take care of her.......both her and her husband ignored him. Fast forward another half hour, again chris mentioned putting her down AGAIN they ignored him.
Finally he was sat right next to them and they started to say they would be leaving as the baby was tired. So again chris said put her down in the spare room as we were about to start games and again he was ignored!
By this point i was so pissed off i just let them leave and i dont think i said bye to either of them......oh and i forgot to mention the champagne she bought, she never offered a glass to anyone and took it with her!
So I havent really heard anything from her since then, untill last night when she sent me an email to tell me to post some things on ebay for her (have been doing for months, again was meant to be paid, never am!)
There was a problem with the pictures so i told her they wernt working, so she leaves me a message on the answer machine to tell me she will be dropping off a disc and to be home around 4pm. No HI how are you, how was your weekend, nothing. It sounded like a message from my boss.
She just stopped in, had the stance that she was ready to leave, stood with her hand on the door, made NO conversation untill the end and said "so we on for next Tuesday?"
I had no idea what she was talking about cuz as far as i knew i wasnt meant to be sitting for her again till february as her mum is in town and so its FREE!
So i played along and said "whats happening next Tuesday" and she said her mum was busy and so can i let her know as she will need to arrange day care if i cant do it. Quickly followed by asking me my plans for the month my hubby is off as she will need to make plans!
AND STILL NO MONEY!
Man im pissed off, i feel like she is my boss and nothing more and everything happened so fast i couldnt process what was going on so i didnt have the chance to ask about the money or anything!
Damn i know this got long but im home alone and so i need to get it off my chest!
PHEW ok now i can breathe!